I had an incredible experience yesterday at the Triple Play Farm in Davidson, NC. I had been hearing more and more about equine facilitated learning, and found the Triple Play Farm on Michelle Icard’s (Michelle in the Middle) blog, and had been emailing Kris Batchelor, the owner, about attending a workshop. The session I had hoped to get in had just filled up, so I thought I would go to one of the monthly open houses since I was drawn to this place. Then Kris called with an opportunity. They needed someone who had never met the herd or been a part of this type of facilitation. It was going to be a demonstration for a segment on WCNC with Michelle Boudin. The thought went through my mind that there wasn’t enough time to lose 10 pounds, but heck, I’m in!
I don’t know that much about equine facilitated learning, but I know that we can learn a lot without talking, that nature is a powerful calming agent, and that those dogs always do exactly what the Dog Whisperer wants when he walks in the room. We’re sending out all sorts of signals with our postures, movements and sounds. Kris helped me with some basics of what would make sense to the horse. He and I were in there alone, and he walked, then trotted, then went back to a walk, and came to me. Then he followed me around. Pretty cool. Kris and the fabulous Rosie Molinary talked with me before and after about how it related to my life outside the ring. What could have been trite actually had some meaning for me.
And that’s what I learned from the experience… when I have a clear purpose, it shows, and others will follow. And if that’s just a taste of it. Just think what I’ll get when I go back for the whole seminar.
Thanks to the women who I feel privileged to know… Kris, who is kind and strong and everything a woman should be, Rosie and Michelle from WCNC. And Pierre, the photographer… my hat is off to you sir. You really worked your camera angles in the blazing heat.
Kris (above)
Rosie (above)